Nevermind....I spoke to a social worker who told me there is nothing I can do until the child is born and there are signs of neglect...then it has to be taken to court. It is insane how a woman can lose all rights to her child and then have another and no one can do a damn thing about it! There is one thing left to try and I'm sure it will get my no where. Her boyfriend is wanted in the state of michigan...unfortunately in NY they can pick someone up who has a warrent but if the other state doesn't want to pay to transfer them then it's let go so here's hoping they decide he's worth paying for....once he's gone she'll be away from him and might be easier to get her some help.
My younger sister...who is 20 now is pregnant again, aprox 7 weeks. She has a 3 almost 4 year old in April who she almost never sees. She's been moved away with her boyfriend who is abusive, wanted by the law in a different state and a druggie...who has no job and never has since they started dating last January...which is when she moved away to live iwth him and his father. My mother has custody of my niece and between her and I is how she is cared for. I work nights and mom works days so we switch off. Before then it was between her and I also because my sister wouldn't do much of anything...the girl can't even bathe herself let alone a child. I hate to admit I'm even related to this girl. The court has told her she'll never get custody back unless she holds down a job, her own place to live with no one moving in or out for a whole year....she has only worked a couple months and lost the job a couple months ago. So what I am getting at here is there anything that can be done to at least make her get parenting classes before this poor baby is born? I'm in New York State which is probably helpful knowledge. I don't know where I would find this out, I tried googling it. This man she is with has 0 patience, my sister got a car and while she was visiting her daughter and my mothers house her bf got mad at it and strangled it til he thought it was dead, dropped it, when it moved it pissed him off and then threw it at a glass window breaking its leg. They returned it to the SPCA saying they didn't know what happened.....and then bought a puppy shortly afterwards and I hear he beats the dog. There has got to be something I can do....what do ya'll think is going to happen if the baby is colic? My sister chooses this man over her child every day, she has the option to come back and be a mom but just wont....she LOVES him, ugh I'm rambling now....I just hate this whole situation. And to top it off I can't have more kids and so badly want another yet she can just reproduce...this is her 2nd pregnancy in the past year and a half...she lost the last one. Alright...thanks for taking the time to read this...Answer Question
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