My brother was engaged to a girl - no one liked her because she was a big partier and no dount a huge slut ( everyone knew this except my brother) ....
My brother is in the Air Force. Before he left for training she told him that she was pregnant with his baby ( they were broken up but still talking at this time, and she said she was several months along) .... He still has to leave but tells her he will take care of her and the baby when he gets home.... he is very excited about the baby.
She has had the baby, she wont bring the bab for us to see ( me or my parents ) ... she is on my facebook however and I can see photos - the baby looks very tan ( my brother is kinda pale, blue eyes, light brown hair.... the girl is blonde hair blue eyes and this baby is "tanned" , dark hair, dark eyes) ... but she still insists that my brother is the father, and then threatens that WE WILL NEVER SEE THE BABY if we say anything about him not being the father.... and that she will leave teh state with the baby before my brother comes home ( and not do a dna test so we really know 100%) ...
Well I know see her status and stuff on facebook... she is arguing on her wall with some other guy becuase he doesnt want HIS daughter to call someone else dad , they call each other names and it is evident that both of them stopped paying attention in school around 5th grade ( they use words like "thank" instead of "think" , "pull" instead of "pool" .. if you catch my drift) ...
AND THEN ... they argue becasue she is now engaged to someone else ( not my brother) ... we then have her "fiances" sister commenting on how she is ruining her brothers life that he is still a teenager and doesnt need to be with an ADULT with a kid....This is is 24 years old and is "engaged" to a 17 year old that she has known for a month .......
I really doubt this is my brothers baby, part of me would be glad if it isnt so he isnt wrapped up with someone this trashy, but also part of me hopes he is so maybe he could save this baby from being around this crazy person !
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