I found out a few months ago that my husband cheated and since have decided to work it out because i still love him. We are going to therapy and it helps but i still find myself thinking about it and asking myself all these questions like why,how could he,when did it happen,where did it happen,what exacly went on. I'm feeling insecure and i have never felt that way before i mean i'm not the hottest chick out there but i've always been happy with me and now i'm not so sure. You know what it's like? It's like someone died and i never got to properly greive! Because i can't go crazy bitch on his ass cause of my kids. If we're gonna stay together i don't want my kids to know and so the only time we can really discuss it is when there at school and he's at work.
I think i'm going crazy!
Please don't judge me...
Send the kids off to the grandparents for a weekend and get the fight over with. If you need to get it out there and yell and scream and ask why do it. Let the kids go have a night with family or friends and just get it out there and over with. If you are going to stay with him you need to let it all out instead of holding it in and letting it fester.
Answer by Alanaplus3 at 4:07 PM on Jan. 13, 2011
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Ok I don't have any personal experience but, IMO HE cheated and you have the right to have the answers to those questions! Will he not tell you or have you not asked?
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