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How do you and ur SO have "couple time"?

Me and SO have an 18mos old and recently got back together and havent really had any us time. Jus curious how u find time for "couple time"?

 
Logan17000

Asked by Logan17000 at 8:35 PM on Jan. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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  • we dont... :(
    sometimes we lay in bed and talk for an hour or so, does that count?
    JOR_HAIL

    Answer by JOR_HAIL at 8:38 PM on Jan. 13, 2011

  • When the kids are in school on thursday we go out to eat or rent a movie and watch it. Thursday are his only day off so we make the best of it.
    sheer_heart

    Answer by sheer_heart at 8:44 PM on Jan. 13, 2011

  • We simply take advantage of the little time we do have together. We don't put any pressure on to have "couple time" so It's ok to sit with a mug of coffee in the morning or watch TV or a movie with wine and cheese in the evening after our son goes to sleep. We take joy in the family time we have now, it won't always be available later in life. Whenever we go out anywhere it's considered a date even though our son comes with us.
    mrs.coop

    Answer by mrs.coop at 8:45 PM on Jan. 13, 2011

  • We don't. We have a nine month old. When we have time to ourselves we sleep. It isn't good for our relationship, but it will have to do for now. Good night!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:37 PM on Jan. 13, 2011

  • I don't really have couple time. Well I guess when my son is asleep we get time alone. But it's been about 5 months since we did anything extra together
    DomoniqueWS

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 8:38 PM on Jan. 13, 2011

  • We're creative and intelligent: so while the child is sleeping, playing happily in the sandbox, or busy doing whatever bizarre things little kids think are fun for 10 minutes, we reconnected.

    When they kids were a LOT older, they'd sleep over at friends' or grandparents' and we'd hang out...
    LindaClement

    Answer by LindaClement at 8:39 PM on Jan. 13, 2011

  • When he's asleep or at school
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:39 PM on Jan. 13, 2011

  • Once the kids are asleep we either cuddle and watch a movie or late night show.
    virgo550

    Answer by virgo550 at 8:51 PM on Jan. 13, 2011

  • well if you have any family near ask if they can watch your baby so you can go out with your SO go for a walk or go to dinner or a movie or just stay in rent some movies & some popcorn so you can cuddle & just talk & enjoy each others company or have a nice home cooked meal take it slow play some board games or go to a nice lounge to go dancing or have a nice drink at the bar goodluck mama
    Ricanmami1

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 9:22 PM on Jan. 13, 2011

  • Whatever it takes. We're pregnant with our 4th, so it's not easy. Sometimes that means putting the kids to bed early, sometimes it means setting the alarm for 4:30 or 5:00am and hanging out in the morning. Other times it's as simple as renting a movie for the kids and letting them watch it while we cook dinner together. And every great once in awhile we scrape up the money for a sitter and go out on a real date. But that's pretty rare.
    mandaday

    Answer by mandaday at 9:22 PM on Jan. 13, 2011

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