I am getting married in June to my fiance and my son's father. I am a younger mom...got pregnant at 20, had my son at 21 and I'll be 23 in 2 weeks. Since birth my son, now 18 months, have had a very close bond. I still have never left him overnight. I do go out occasionally but I always come home after 5 or so hours. He will be 2 in August, so he'll be almost 2 by the time of the wedding.
My fiance and I have started talking about what we want to do about a honeymoon. At this point, I am not ready to leave my son for more than 1 night. I would be okay with 1 night but I would miss him too much after that. My parents suggested maybe going somewhere for just 3 days, instead of a week, and my in-laws think my fiance and I need a whole week to ourselves. I'm still feeling like even 3 days is too long and I don't want to spend all this money if I'm just going to be upset and want to come home.
I'm not too worried about my son because he loves my parents and that's where he'll be staying, but I am a little scared for him. My fiance was fine with just the 3 days...he actually seemed to not care about a honeymoon at all, I mean we live together, we've obviously had sex already so there's nothing super exciting to do.
I'm thinking that maybe we could post pone the honeymoon until a later date when I feel comfortable enough to leave for a longer period of time? Thoughts? Opinions? Advice?
Either way, my inlaws are gonna be pissed if the honeymoon is less than a week, let alone not have one right away...which I don't care if they are mad, its none of their business.
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