My husband told me he has just ended affairs with 2 of his co-workers. He told me because he says he wants be in our marriage 100% and needed to be honest. Things had been distant between us for 2 years (altho we were still having sex and spending time together, but we didn't really connect much) so although I wasn't all that surprised why it happened I am so angry that he crossed the line.
We are at counseling and I am going through so much (now feel insecure, not confident, angry, betrayed) and we hope to stay together, but I'm not sure if I can get past that. I want to let the secret out so the other women's careers will be ruined. I want them to hurt the same way I am by feeling they are losing everything. My husband's reputation will also take a hit (and mine too I guess if we do stay together - ppl judge - and then also my kids might find out one day), but i wondering if it is a good form of revenge...
They knew he was married, they'd met me many times so I feel betrayed by them too.One is single, and the other one is also married and I was friendly with (tho we were never friends).They have since found out about each other and they are angry and confused too (which is kind of funny, as they have no right). What do you think I should do?
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