My DH makes the money, and I stay at home. He has the bank card, with the money on it, with him all the time. If he wants to buy something, and the money is in the bank, he will buy it....not thinking ahead to bills and groceries. So, even though he makes more than enough money, we always live paycheck to paycheck. It is very frustrating! I've made up budgets before, and he looks at them and says "Yeah, thats a great idea!" But then, it never gets started. I'm starting to feel like he's blowing me off.. like when my kids say "Mommy, look at me!" and they are doing something they've done a million times, and I say "Thats great, honey!"
Have any of you had to deal with this? How did you get on the same page with your DH?
Answer by MizLee at 12:51 PM on Jan. 14, 2011
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