Is it possible to get ahold of child services and basically give up an older child, 4 almost 5, without being charged with anything or doing anything wrong. I love my children to death, but I'm having extreme difficulities dealing with the oldest one right now. And i've talked to her dr.'s as what to do, and what i can do, and i'm not getting any help anywhere. And i think i may be having some mental health issues after this last baby, 8 weeks old. But there are times the 4 year old pushes things to the point where it almost makes me want to become abusive, and that scares me. I've never abused her, and i don't want to, but i'm starting to scare myself sometimes by how angry i get. And i've even given myself timeout, i'll lock myself if the bathroom if i think i may do something out of anger, and she will come to the bathroom door and taunt me, and still try to come in after me. I'm just not sure what to do anymore. I don't want to give her up, but i'm just trying to explore my options so any advice would be welcome, but please don't bash. I'm just trying to figure out what's best for my baby girl and i don't think her being around me while i constantly feel hostile towards her is it.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:16 PM on Jan. 14, 2011 in Preschoolers (3-4)
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have you tried talking to her. maybe something has happened to her and she doesn't know how to deal with it. maybe its just a phase. I'm just not sure how or what she could be doing that you might want to give her away. i know my 4 yr old has giving me lots of stress but i love her and would never want to give up on her. can you be more specific on what she is doing that is so wrong? maybe that's why i don'tunderstand. just don't make any rash decisions that you might regret later in life. maybe counseling will help not only her but you too. i hope you both can get to a better place.
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