This is what I would do in that situation.
I would sit my husband down for an open and honest talk about it. I would explain that after a hysterectomy, that my hormone levels are off. Many of the hormones that are off, are the one's that make me desire sex. That hopefully with time or hormone replacement treatment (which I would talk to my doc about) things would level back out, and I would start desiring sex again. Until the hormones are leveled out though, he could really help me out in regards to feeling sexual. He could help me instigate sexual feelings and thoughts by the way he treats me, interacts with me, woo's and romances me.. He can help make me feel like a sexual woman once again, help me to feel sexy sexual and desirable. Because I wouldn't be feeling those things at the moment either. Hopefully he would listen and we could work together to get back on track.
at 3:30 PM on Jan. 14, 2011