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Anyone think this form of punishment is not considered abuse? adult content

This really bothered me to watch! The cold shower was recommended by the father. It was used in the military!

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Asked by AmyLynn5398 at 4:16 PM on Jan. 14, 2011 in Parenting Debate

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  • That's just mean! No one should do that to children!

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 4:17 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • I would NEVER do that to my Son. It shouldn't be done to ANY kid. That's just CRUEL.

    Answer by -AJ at 4:19 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • Watching this made me sick to my stomach, that poor little boy is going to have issues galore when he grows up, what is wrong with that woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!this is abuse! psychological and physical!


    Answer by older at 4:25 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • I'd like to f'n slap that mother right dead in her f'n face!!!!!!!!!!! That breaks my heart ='( that poor little boy....that is CRUEL & HATRED!!!!!!!

    Answer by knicole0708 at 4:25 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • I think it would have been a better idea to describe it than posting a link to it. Now you are just giving the video views so the poster can say how many hits they have had.

    Answer by meandrphoto at 4:30 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • I can't even bring myself to watch this after reading the comments.. why do people find this necessary and to tape it and U TUBE it as if bragging about things like this.. clearly they must know its not right.

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 4:30 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • I'm speechless..... poor kid. Hot sauce? wtf? how did she even come up with this crazy idea? stupid lady must have quite an imagination..

    Answer by NataliaWalle at 5:22 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • That bitch needs a cold shower in the middle of a snow storm and to drink a whole fucking bottle of hot sauce.

    The daughter taped it and I'm guessing the bitch didn't know until later. I think, from what I gathered from the other clips, that the daughter sent it to the Dr. Phil show. I sincerely hope CPS stepped in and removed ALL children from that household.

    Answer by SpiritedWitch at 7:55 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • Omg Omg I wanna bury her ass in the snow right now freaking bitch. That poor boy. That is all wrong. I wanna slap her..

    Answer by Astraea_79 at 11:37 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • I had to think about this one and then ended up watching the video.  My hub and I both had freezing cold water thrown on us for misbehaving and when I was little if I had covered up a heating vent I had to stand outside in the cold.  I don't consider these things abuse although with my own children I wouldn't do them.  Then I watched the video.  That little boy screaming and crying did it for me.  I can't understand how she can just keep standing there repeating the same things over and over while he is crying and she just keeps yelling.  I hope she got some help.


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 11:23 AM on Jan. 15, 2011

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