So my sons best friend's mom has 3 kids (18, 15 and 8) she is single and they lost their home and are living in her parents basement. Feeling sort of bad for her when I first met her I sort of befriended her ...maybe by being her friend I could sort of maybe help her out and I am always in the market for a new friend. I feel like the friendship is soo one sided now I do so muc for her with watching her kids and listen to her NEGITIVE ATT ITUDE and listen to her bitch about how much pain she is in from her back to having her monthly friend (for those of you who are NOT aware apparently when our monthly comes that intitals us to a weeks vacation where we should be able to pawn off our kids and have absolutly EVERYTHING done for us!) she comes for a playdate convieniently at dinner time so I have to feed them, her son kicked a hole in my wall and is a complete paain in the butt to watch cause he does not listen. When I need someone to watch my little one because I hae an appt I have come to realize that I can not depend on her because the time or 2 I have she forgets maknig me late for the appt with 3 kids in tow or inthe case of recently putting our dog down she was sooo late and then she promises to show up for play dates and just does not show or is hours late. her excuses of how her life sucks and this and that is just not cutting it so here is my question....how do I end my friendship with here but still let our boys continue to be friends ? Right now I am just saying NO to her and avoiding phone calls...cause she did call (or her son did cause mom is in sooo much pain.....) ideas please!?!?!
Answer by ohwrite at 9:15 PM on Jan. 14, 2011
Answer by gwen20 at 11:46 PM on Jan. 14, 2011
Answer by MyAngel003 at 11:59 PM on Jan. 14, 2011