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If your daughter told yo the she hated a girl because she got big boobs first

what would you say

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Nancygray2

Asked by Nancygray2 at 10:30 PM on Jan. 14, 2011 in Tweens (9-12)

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  • I wouldn't say anything. It's just silly teenaged drama.
    Musicmom80

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 10:31 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • Her time will come too. Boobs are overrated. She shouldn't hate someone who can't control her own body development. That is what I would tell my daughter.
    Izsarejman

    Answer by Izsarejman at 10:31 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • I think I would have to have a talk with my daughter on why "hate" is not the way to go. I'm not even talking about the actual emotion, but rather the saying itself.

    The issue of her being jealous would be put on the back burner until we had cleared up the whole "hate" issue first.
    m-avi

    Answer by m-avi at 10:32 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • She'll get them she shouldn't HATE someone because of that. I think she is just jealous she'll get them I was ALWAYS jealous my sister got boobs before me! oh yeah btw my sister was a year younger so I think I had a right to be a little mad/jealous! LOL! Just tell her every young girls bodies are different!
    jdbrown21

    Answer by jdbrown21 at 10:34 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • Personally I would want to cry if my daughter said that to me. I would sit down and have a long self esteem talk with her. I would talk to her about people's bodies developing at different rates and loving herself for what she does and doesn't have, and not to dislike people for what they do/don't have. Man, it's so hard to be a girl!
    Namaste17

    Answer by Namaste17 at 10:35 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • lol! jdbrown,
    I don't have this problem with my daughter she i only 5 It was just HYPOTHETICAL question. lol!
    Nancygray2

    Comment by Nancygray2 (original poster) at 10:40 PM on Jan. 14, 2011

  • Hate is such a strong word...my daughter is 10 and she doesn't want them she started to develop over the summer annd she told me she didn't want them...her time will come.
    musicloverDebs

    Answer by musicloverDebs at 2:00 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

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