I am at the end of my rope with my husband.. it is not a situation of abuse... he is just so damn selfish - we have talked about it - i dont think he is even trying to improve... i keep going back to the thought of how much my son will lose in this - they get along/yes he is bio dad... i couldnt (neither could dh) afford our house so ds would have to move, lose the best friend who lives as our neighbor... all he has known... i only see dh on thurs, fri (after work) sat (all day - this is my worst day of the week always... ) and sunday nights... so really most the time i do not have to deal with dh... i just dont know what to do. no he will not go to couples therapy because he wont listen to anyone or hear how his is wrong. i also cannot stand that ds is growing up watching me bide my time in a relationship that doesnt make me happy... because i dont want him to only see his dad on every other weekend and i absolutely could not share custody half and half... see i have obviously thought way too often on the subject. and Yes i DID know he was selfish when i married him but did the dumbass thing of believing that someday (like when he became a dad, when he was a profesional ) he would mature and stop being self centered. i have to take the blame there. i married him anyways because i loved him and thought i could change him (HA!) or more likely time would change him... what do you think i should do?? and ultimatums do not work with him = he takes it as a challenge to call your bluff.Answer Question
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