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How often do you have sex and how long does it last? adult content

meaning how much time do you put into it.

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:46 PM on Jan. 15, 2011 in Relationships

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  • We try to atleast make love every other day and it can be any where from a half a hour or longer

    Answer by mommato2boys79 at 7:48 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

  • i am dating myself !!
    so i put in as much as i want, for as long as i want
    and i always make sure i give myself the big O every single time

    Answer by fiatpax at 7:49 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

  • ummm not so often at the moment. and when we do it's like anywhere from 15-45 minutes, depending. Sometimes more. ... we used to be every day but that was years ago. We're now really sporadic.

    Answer by hibbingmom at 7:53 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

  • when we were first dating (before children) it was literally every day, twice a day, for about 45 minutes each....

    Now that we have a three year old...i would say about once every other or every third day. and anywhere from 20min to 60 min....

    Answer by john2007 at 8:00 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

  • At least every other day and from start to finish usually around 30-45 minutes. That is long enough for me. I don't need marathon sessions or I start thinking about the shopping list since after a couple of "O", I don't get off anymore.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 8:01 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

  • I wish I could put in more time, but he finishes too quickly.

    Answer by cerealmom2 at 8:05 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

  • about once or twice a week. It lasts about 10 to 15 minutes or longer on a good day

    Answer by Shyma at 8:16 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

  • We MIGHT have sex once or twice a month :( DH's schedule is all screwy because he works for VDOT so when it's not snowing, Mon-Fri he works 7AM-3:30PM, but when it does snow, even if he worked that day, he goes in 7PM-7AM. Plus I'm in school every day. Blah! Usually the whole shebang lasts about 45 minutes (foreplay through the end of sex). Sometimes more, sometimes less if we don't have much time. We've been married over 3 years and I think we've had sex maybe 100 times total since we started dating in 2005. He's 22 with the sex drive of a 80 year old.

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 8:19 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

  • It seems like its over before it starts most times :(

    Answer by Logan17000 at 9:10 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

  • Every Fri and Sat,about 45 min to an hour and a half

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:36 PM on Jan. 15, 2011

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