For the longest time I've made myself believe that I messed up...it was irreversible and that I deserved to feel so broken down.
I fell in love, but I was way too young and not ready for it. I let him go and now he's miles and miles away and we are both pretty messed up over the whole situation...we have a lot of healing to do. For so long he was so angry with me over everything that he wouldn't even talk to me and we both made some huge mistakes and I thought I was the only one hurting but when we finally started talking again it was evident that we were both hurt, both missing each other and after even more time we realized we both still felt for each other.
Things have gotten to the point where we have decided that we need time to grow up, be on our own for a while and that in x amount of time we will get back together but I've found that I'm paranoid about it all...some days I still feel like I'm not deserving of a second chance and other days I feel like I am but I get scared that something will happen and my day to be with him again will never come.
Do you believe in second chances? in regards to yourself...if you mess up, do you feel the way I do or do you think you are just as worthy of a second chance as anyone else?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:59 PM on Jan. 15, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by QandA at 10:00 PM on Jan. 15, 2011
Answer by chloe7777 at 10:15 PM on Jan. 15, 2011
Answer by anon1986East at 10:16 PM on Jan. 15, 2011
Answer by myree85 at 10:23 PM on Jan. 15, 2011
Answer by Ricanmami1 at 10:57 PM on Jan. 15, 2011
Of Course, i believe in second chances:) we are only human- i think the best life lessons come from Messing-Up; so you don't make the same mistake the Second Time around! Wishing you lots of luck-
Answer by daisyb at 11:25 PM on Jan. 15, 2011
Answer by LADYA1983 at 11:39 PM on Jan. 15, 2011
Answer by mommafugate at 9:53 AM on Jan. 16, 2011
Answer by Sonya375 at 10:05 AM on Jan. 16, 2011
Answer by tnmomofive at 3:53 PM on Jan. 16, 2011
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