My husband and I have been married for 3 1/2 years, 2 of those we have been going back and forth between arguing, making up, getting a divorce and staying together. We both cheated on each other for different reasons, and we have both tried to forgive and move foward. We are currently in marriage counseling after i FINALLY convinced him to go. problem is in the back of my head i keep hearing this voice that i should just leave, that its the best for everyone, we have 2 little girls, one almost 3 andone 7months. And while i love him i don't feel that i'm in love with him right now and I'm scared that won't come back and that it wouldn't be fair to him to stay just because of the kids...he deserves to be with someone who makes him feel loved and special and i just don't know if i can be that person. How long do i wait to see if the feelings return?? I just am not sexually into him anymore and i don't know if its because of the cheating on both our parts or something that was caused by the pregnancies or we've just grown apart? I'm afraid I may just want to leave because i'm scared and it seems easier but i just want whats best for my girls and everyone involved! HELP!!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:05 AM on Jan. 16, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by leah_rai at 9:08 AM on Jan. 16, 2011
Answer by tootoobusy at 9:10 AM on Jan. 16, 2011
Sit down and write out what you want and share it with your counselor of course you want to do the right thing for both of you trust me I stayed for ten years for the kids it helps the kids but eventually they wise up as well. You have to figure out what you want and what you need and go from there.
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 9:27 AM on Jan. 16, 2011
Answer by louise2 at 9:30 AM on Jan. 16, 2011
Answer by louise2 at 9:31 AM on Jan. 16, 2011
Answer by Librarylady60 at 10:23 AM on Jan. 16, 2011
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