Everything you do that will coerce, force or 'praise' her into behaving the way you want to will distort the value and importance of her learning to listen to her body's cues.
In 6 years, no one will give you or her a prize for being the earliest or best or fastest or most obedient toilet pooper on the block. It's not even 'who cares in 100 years' --who cares in 8 months?
Leave it. You can do lasting psychological damage, getting into power struggles with where, how and when she poops. Stay out of it.
at 7:41 PM on Jan. 16, 2011