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am i paranoid or is something going on?

he is acting different, he no longer gives me the passionate kisses that he used to give, i havent gotten the rose for the month yet(i have always gotten a rose on the 3rd of every month) he has a girls number in his cell phone(she is suppose to be his client at WORK), he keeps trying to turn me on to the swingers lifestyle. and he is going to a BAR right now @ 10pm on sunday night when he has to work tommorrow wtf?

 
2ndiapers

Asked by 2ndiapers at 9:52 PM on Jan. 16, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (17)
  • Some thing is going on. All of those would be red flags.

    His butt would NOT be going out and I would be getting to the bottom of it or his stuff would be on the lawn when he got home.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 9:53 PM on Jan. 16, 2011

  • I'm sorry but yes, it sounds like there may be something going on. Keep your instincts alert and try to discretely get down to the bottom of things. Good luck
    Raccoon

    Answer by Raccoon at 9:59 PM on Jan. 16, 2011

  • Something is up, but whether it's just a personality change or somehting like cheating you won't know until you ask.
    rhianna1708

    Answer by rhianna1708 at 9:57 PM on Jan. 16, 2011

  • BIG RED FLAG! Have you spoken to him about it?
    iluvmykidsxoxo

    Answer by iluvmykidsxoxo at 10:00 PM on Jan. 16, 2011

  • You should not be scared to bring it up..he is your husband. Just ask him nicely if there is something wrong because you have noticed a difference in him that has caused you concern. If he cares he will at least hear you out. If he starts getting all defensive i would definitely assume he is guilty of something.

    iluvmykidsxoxo

    Answer by iluvmykidsxoxo at 10:04 PM on Jan. 16, 2011

  • None of those things sound good..I hope it isn't what I think it is. Good luck and lots of hugs.
    -AJ

    Answer by -AJ at 10:15 PM on Jan. 16, 2011

  • If u can do it,follow him and see what goes on.
    dancer

    Answer by dancer at 10:15 PM on Jan. 16, 2011

  • If I were you I would be showing up at that bar
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:15 PM on Jan. 16, 2011

  • im scared to ask him, any ideas on how to bring it up?
    2ndiapers

    Comment by 2ndiapers (original poster) at 9:59 PM on Jan. 16, 2011

  • like i said i am scared to bring it up tips would be great
    2ndiapers

    Comment by 2ndiapers (original poster) at 10:00 PM on Jan. 16, 2011