the other weekend my hubba threw me a surprise 40th birthday party. it was beautiful out at this nice restaurant and all of my friends and some of my family that were able to come in came. his parents did not come and one of his loser sisters with her boyfriend and 2 brats came with not even a happy bday and no gift. this is the final straw i am so sick of being disrespected by these losers. what should i do?Answer Question
Answer by louise2 at 9:57 AM on Nov. 13, 2008
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Answer by momto3157 at 10:38 AM on Nov. 13, 2008
It is your hubby's family. You didn't mention how close they were or how HE felt about his own family. Sometimes it's a delicate position you are in and is futile to stir anything up between you and your hubby. If he is open to it, I would let him know how I feel and then I would take the high road. Meaning, I wouldn't let their disrespect bother me in the least bit. You know that you are a great wife and Mom, who really cares what they think. Their disrespect doesn't define you. Respect can not be demanded from anyone. I always take the high road. Be the one with grace, honor and maturity! Rise above. If your hubby is open to talking to them, great. If not, continued.....