So my man is great to me and my 2 boys and I have no complaints. He's in the military and father to a four year old son from a previous marriage that he's had full custody of since a few months old. Him being in the military and being a full time father doesn't work, so he had his mom come and live with him to care for his son while he goes to work and does deployments. Now we've been together for some time and I love his family. They're great and fun to be around. We both have seperate homes. Now we've been wanting to get a home together, buy one, and it looks like mom (his) will be coming too. Well what I see at his home is that he works, comes home, cooks for him and mom and son, cleans up, caters to whatever mom needs (cigarettes, drinks, school work, everything).Then we spend our time together the entire weekend and mom texts him incessantly. Now he's not actin like a mommas boy because he devotes himself to me on our time.....but is this a touch much?
I don't know, I feel like there are two women in his life and by combining our households I'd be fighting for his attention as far as our own family, and of course I know he has his parents as I do and they deserve his time as well. But at what point is it too much?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:49 AM on Jan. 17, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by LindaClement at 11:52 AM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by cara124 at 11:54 AM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by amybaby_19 at 11:56 AM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 11:56 AM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by beyondhopes at 12:01 PM on Jan. 17, 2011