this weekend i went to a party, the subject of RAPE came up. to my surprise almost every woman at the party has been RAPED! either incest, ex-boyfriend, someone they new stranger ect.. so many shared it wasn't a dry eye in the place. for the first time in twenty years i opened up about my rape.
i was next door at my bf's her cousin had this crush on me that went to far, i had told him on more than one ocassion that i was not interested in him, he still made comments and tried. well the day this happened i was on my period and normally when he came around i'd just leave, this day i went in her room and finished studying he came in the room and had his way with me, i cried and screamed and with all my strenght was not able to get him off me, infact his cousin and i both faught him off me, finally he got up and i will never forget the words he said to me " I PLAY TO MANY GAMES, I NO I WANT HIM" he left out the door. the sad part is i never said a word to anyone else because in my mind i thought maybe if i went home when i sa him it wouldn't have happened, years later i did confront him and he act as if i was crazy, as if we was in a relationship.
so many other women had simular stories, they never told, or reported it. are you a victim of RAPE? please share.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:37 PM on Jan. 17, 2011 in Politics & Current Events
Answer by Namaste17 at 12:42 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by khf22 at 12:46 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by sopranomommy at 12:48 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by ArmyWifeAshlie at 12:49 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by 21lisa72 at 12:51 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
I was intimidated into non violent sex w a man that I certainly didn't want. He was a friend of our family. I was 14. That's what happened to me and i never told anyone. I know the statistics are disgusting when it comes to women who are abused but what has suprised me over the years is how many men I have come across who say something sexual happened to them as young children. I'm not discounting the original post I just thought it was an interesting piece of information.
Answer by RentaMom at 12:54 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by geminilove at 12:58 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by GoodyBrook at 1:00 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
In my senior year of hs, a bunch on my gf's were having a conversation about this...and all but 1 had some sort of inapprioate sexual act or conduct to report..most from family members and lose family friends...it was very sad,,,It really freaks me out for my KIDS...
Answer by sweet-a-kins at 1:02 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
Answer by purpleducky at 1:06 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
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