My man and I have been together 3+ years. It's been pure hell. I won't lie. Hell. But we work thru it. I got a call from an old friend. We talked for 3 hours. Nothing major just caught up.
Now years ago him and I had some flirting, we both said no this is bad. Both went our own ways. Stayed casual friends.
Anyway, It felt so good to have somebody talk to me again. and it was nice drama free, no name calling, no bashing, just talking about life stuff. no undertones of anything just friendly chat.
and now i'm eagerly anticipating the next call. I NEED, i WANT i LOVED hearing a nice voice talk to me. I really miss nice men. But then I felt bad for talking to him for 3 hours. About nothing really, just talking.
How would I feel knowing my man did the same thing. Oh yeah I was livid mad. when i found out. Told him and then I was the bad guy for snooping. worked thru that. I'm just tired of being a verbal punching bag. Im tired of his drama, i'm tired of him. I don't like him at all. but then I think we can work thru anything. Right? or am i dillusional?
We have no kids together. dang it. I know cut my losses and run while I have some dignity left.
Sorry letting this out here. I don't want my family to find me. yes they are on this site.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:14 PM on Jan. 17, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by ItsMe89 at 4:28 PM on Jan. 17, 2011
Don't settle- you deserve to be with someone you enjoy not just sticking it out because you've been together for a while. BTW what you felt today is what it's supposed to feel like =)
Answer by skittles1108 at 9:06 PM on Jan. 17, 2011