Ok moms, so this is the first time in my life I haven't been able to pay the bills. It's our own fault, we bought a vehicle we DESPERATELY needed, payed cash for it out of our savings because we didn't want a car payment (and had to take a chunk out of our main checking account, too). We are in the process of short-selling our home because we're being transferred and taking a pay-cut, which is ok with me, I'm sick of the mortgage. I know I have to be 30 days behind on mortgage anyway to qualify for a short-sale, so I guess this is the time. It just feels weird and makes me nervous. I don't care about my credit, everyone's credit is trashed these days.
I just don't feel like I can confide in my friends right now 'cause I don't really want anyone to feel burdened about it, but I needed to vent a little and hoped someone out there could just give a little reassurance! Thanks!
Asked by Anonymous at 12:56 AM on Jan. 18, 2011 in Money & Work
Answer by Erica_Smerica at 6:14 PM on Jan. 18, 2011
Answer by Busimommi at 1:09 AM on Jan. 18, 2011
Answer by Collegemommy910 at 8:32 AM on Jan. 18, 2011
Answer by momofone072506 at 1:19 AM on Jan. 18, 2011
the only other thing would be that you probably wouldn't be able to get another home loan for at least 7 years...and i am sorry if i sounded rude i just think its best to know all the info before making a huge decision! Also i want you to know i totally understand you have to do what is best for your family and they way i look at it is that things will be fine as long your are together!!!
Answer by momofone072506 at 1:32 AM on Jan. 18, 2011
Weird, according to my "activity" thingy, you posted four answers, momofone! Funny!
yeah you can't edit and i kept notice spelling mistakes lol!!
Answer by momofone072506 at 1:33 AM on Jan. 18, 2011
Answer by mommy2joeynabby at 1:47 AM on Jan. 18, 2011
Answer by HotMama330 at 11:47 AM on Jan. 18, 2011