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would you have your child visit their dad if he was locked up ?

 
gwen20

Asked by gwen20 at 6:31 AM on Jan. 18, 2011 in General Parenting

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Answers (10)
  • nope! not good environment, and my son doesn't need to see his dad in shackles, and behind a bullet proof glass! i won't even take my kids to see my own brother!
    mama2bof2

    Answer by mama2bof2 at 7:11 AM on Jan. 18, 2011

  • no i dont think i could do that to my kids
    tammy372011

    Answer by tammy372011 at 8:57 AM on Jan. 18, 2011

  • Probably not. Might depend on whether or not I thought he was guilty of whatever he was locked up for. Although even then I tend to think prison is not the best environment for children.
    Syphon

    Answer by Syphon at 6:36 AM on Jan. 18, 2011

  • depending on the childs age and the reason why he is in there in the first place.
    MsBrazil86

    Answer by MsBrazil86 at 6:39 AM on Jan. 18, 2011

  • At his age now, yes I would because I know that he would miss his dad. My son is use to going to the jail because we take food and drinks to him and his coworkers all the time.
    JeremysMom

    Answer by JeremysMom at 6:40 AM on Jan. 18, 2011

  • Wow! That is a huge question. I think it depends on the child's age, relationship with said dad, the type of facility he is at, the visiting program for children employed there and what kind of person the dad is.
    derosia_mama

    Answer by derosia_mama at 7:19 AM on Jan. 18, 2011

  • of course I would.....
    LuvMyMedic3ID

    Answer by LuvMyMedic3ID at 7:22 AM on Jan. 18, 2011

  • Depends on how old the child is.
    L0vingMy3Girls

    Answer by L0vingMy3Girls at 7:50 AM on Jan. 18, 2011

  • it would have to be up to the child
    babylovebugs

    Answer by babylovebugs at 12:44 PM on Jan. 18, 2011

  • For me it depends on the childs age, how long the dad will be incarcerated, and what the reasoning is.
    mama2br00ke

    Answer by mama2br00ke at 2:45 PM on Jan. 18, 2011