I just recently found out that my ex's "friend" was over (don't know if she slept over) but was there in the morning making pancakes. Since my divorce ( about 7 months ago) my son has had some issues with the break up. He's in his teens but I still don't think this was appropriate. What do you think?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:18 AM on Jan. 18, 2011 in Teens (13-17)
Answer by Candi1024 at 11:19 AM on Jan. 18, 2011
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Answer by Inloveagain at 12:06 PM on Jan. 18, 2011
I think the first response was a bit harsh... but you really dont have much control.
BUT I think it is worth talking to dad about... be nice... do your best to talk calmly and don't threaten or accuse. The father is giving your son a bad view of being single and treating woman poorly. With that sort of male role model your son is more likely to start sleeping around at a young(er) age.
BUT you must also not have "friends" over. The children of divorce really have NO need to meet a "friend" until the relationship is VERY serious bordering on marriage. At that point an introduction is appropriate.
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