I've had this best friend for about 2 years and last year we got really close and it was an emotionally stressful time for me. We ended up having sex one night in December when I was sleeping over his house and then again on Valentines day. We were both sober enough to know what we were doing. Well needless to say it made our friendship stressful so we stopped and took a break from our friendship even for 6 months. Well in the summer we started becoming friends again and have stayed strictly friends. We are now able to talk and joke around about our past and it's not as awkward. We've gotten really close again and text and call each other all the time. I still feel like he's the person that I'm meant to be with but a year ago he didn't feel the same and I haven't brought the subject up because I don't want to stress our friendship again. Last year this time I took him off my facebook when we stopped hanging out because I just needed a break completely. Well neither one of us has made the effort to friend the other one because I think we're both just waiting for the other one to do it. Well last night at 2 am he finally requested me, I know it was at 2 am because it was sent to my phone.
I'm just wondering what he was doing thinking of me at 2 am that he decided that he wanted to friend me? And when something good happens in his life he calls me. He tells his mom about me! After I have a first date with someone that is less than what I expected I end up at his house just to watch tv. There are things about him that drive me crazy but I still love him. We have a lot of the same interests in common and I don't know if I'm just reaching for signs that he feels the same without bringing it up again. I just feel like with such a strong connection how can it not be right? Does anyone have any suggestions, thoughts, or similar stories?
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