Suddenly after his father & I got married, the exwife started withholding visitation, blaming me as the ss was apparantly having adjustment problems with me in the home when he's visit his dad.
Now I am being held responsible for all the drama. My husband has filed for a divorce, since that is the only way he will be able to see his kid again.
Now, if I want to save the marriage, I am suppose to kiss ass to exwife and "fix" things with ss so he'll come over for visits. I am not allowed in my own home when he comes.
There is NO abuse, he has no rules, boundaries, or chores when at our home.
Due to some "arguments" between my husband & self that he over heard, he turned this into a big deal that I am mean etc. I see it as he doesn't want to come to see his dad when I am here because I expect some reasonable rules/boundaries.
Husband, exwife & stepson all against me.
I want kid to get on track and come for visitation, only because if he refuses, my husband will divorce me. He has already filed, put it on hold, giving ME "the chance to fix this"
Asked by Anonymous at 12:56 PM on Jan. 18, 2011 in General Parenting
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Answer by Musicmom80 at 1:05 PM on Jan. 18, 2011
Well filing for divorce was not his only option he could have filed for enforcement of visitation order........ She can't legally stop visitation because the 11 yr old doesn't like his new step mom....... People would never get to see their kids if that was the case.
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Answer by maxsmom11807 at 1:11 PM on Jan. 18, 2011
Well, your DH needs to stand up to his ex and put that kid in place. I don't say it to say it I have lived it. And it went round and round in my case he went as far to say I kicked him I lost my mind are you kidding me. So I told DH either he made it right or the kid wasn't allowed in my house. You are being to easy stand up for yourself and tell your DH to get some balls. If he won't stand up for you and your marriage then you need to and you may need to think about why he isn't.
Good Luck ((hugs))
Answer by christinato at 1:27 PM on Jan. 18, 2011
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