What does your partner/spouse view as romantic?
In order to do something romantic/plan something romantic for someone, you have to know what they view as romantic. Otherwise, your efforts may not be recognized (the intention behind them known and understood) for what they are, or what you are trying to do.
Everyone has an idea of what is romantic to them. Even the seemingly most unromantic person has something that makes them feel : loved, appreciated, wanted, needed..etc.. And those are the feelings we are trying to induce when we are being romantic or wooing someone . We are trying to show them how much we love them and want them.
at 1:31 PM on Jan. 18, 2011