My fiance and I and our two little girls (ages 1 and 4) are staying with my parents momentarily until we find a place of our own. So, today my parents approached me while my fiance was at work and said they had a problem with the way my fiance treats our oldest daughter. He teases her and plays with her in a joking way and sort of "winds her up" sometimes and then after he is done playing he is quick to tell her to stop. Which to my parents makes him look mean. I really don't think that he's trying to be mean to her or anything, but they said that the next time they saw him do it that they are going to say something. I feel very much in the middle and know if I say anything at all to my fiance that he will be offended and not want to stay here anymore, and will probably go stay with his parents until we can find a place of our own. Is there a way I can approach this subject in a way that won't make him suspicious or angry at me for stating my opinion on the way he acts with her? My parents think it's going to confuse her because he will taunt her and tease her until she's crying and then when she finally goes along with playing with him, he changes his mind and has said "get away from me." I just don't want to have issues between everyone while we are all living in the same house. IS there a way I can approach this subject and get a positive outcome?
I sort of feel the same way because my fiance often does small things to irritate me even after I tell him 50 times to stop it. Like today he grabbed my ass about 25 times and every time I told him to stop it, or leave me alone, or don't touch me but he kept doing it. I feel like he's stuck in the 6th grade and can't stop teasing/taunting me. He thinks it's funny, but it really pisses me off and he knows it but keeps doing it.
Sorry for the long post, I'm just really frustrated. :-/
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