My husband and I are looking at divorcing, not sure the marriage can be saved...after his repeated visits to strip clubs, spending thousands of dollars doing God only knows. He has been away for 2 months this last time around. He is in one state and I in another. This is about the 3rd time in a year while we were seperated by distance he has wasted money. I just figured it out this time, only to make me wonder about the last times, what he was really doing. Well we have a 2 and a half yr old and a 15m old. The older is and has been affected in the last 6 months by his home and gone again for work.
I am concerned more for the babies than me. How did your kids adjust when the distance was so far away. Many tell me, they are young it will be easier now than when they are older. After all, they are used to him being gone, as he has only been around about 3 or 4 months total the last year. Part of me says to stay with him, only for the kids, but the reality of being miserable with someone isn't fair either. I never thought he was capable of something like this. I just don't understand when he was shoving money down whores thongs he wasn't think....this could buy *Jimmy* the bed he needs, or this could buy *Joey* a bed he is going to need in the next year.... Plus we were to be moving to where he is next week!!! The money for the move was all spent. He is national guard, so we weren't being transfered via active duty orders, he had gotten a civilian contracted job training soldiers.
I am just sad for my babies.
Answer by sweetpea1217 at 9:41 PM on Jan. 18, 2011
Answer by matthewscandi at 9:46 PM on Jan. 18, 2011
Answer by admckenzie at 10:42 PM on Jan. 18, 2011
Answer by Melbornj at 10:43 PM on Jan. 18, 2011