In the past i have cheated on my boyfriend multiple times we have been together for 9 years and have a great son. When he asked me why i cheated my answer was this " because i could since you didnt care" and the truth is the first time i did i told him and he didnt have much of a reaction so i didnt think he loved me so i did it again and again and told him about it every time! I know im wrong for what ive done but is it crazy for me to honestly feel i did it because i WANTED a reaction from him to know that he loves me? Trust me i know how stupid i sound right now! Things are great and i would never do that to us again im just doing some soul searching right now i guess! Even worse, I would end our relationship if he EVER cheated on me. But thats my choice, just like it was his choice to stay with me, i didnt make him. So i dont feel like i should be ridiculed for it. He could have left.Answer Question
Yah.. you make me sick. I feel bad for your poor DH.. he obviously loves you or he wouldn't have given your cheatin ass chance after chance. You need to woman up and realize what the hell you want & quit hurting him already!
Answer by SuperrMommyy at 2:36 PM on Jan. 19, 2011
Answer by Jademom07 at 2:36 PM on Jan. 19, 2011
Answer by rach28uk at 2:37 PM on Jan. 19, 2011
WOW! He has to be a hell of a man to stand by you over and over again. Maybe you should tell him you would like some angry from your affairs. A reaction to his disapproval.
Answer by sheer_heart at 2:38 PM on Jan. 19, 2011
Answer by pixie_trix at 2:38 PM on Jan. 19, 2011
Answer by sunsetbeach81 at 2:40 PM on Jan. 19, 2011
Soul searching? Then at least be honest. You blame him for YOUR cheating. It is your responsibility and your fault, own it. Noone is perfect and everyone makes mistakes but lets be adult enough to say "hey I messed up."
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 2:40 PM on Jan. 19, 2011
Answer by pixie_trix at 2:42 PM on Jan. 19, 2011
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 2:42 PM on Jan. 19, 2011
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 2:43 PM on Jan. 19, 2011