i have two daughters who have different fathers (i was young and dumb for sure). I have sole custody of the oldest due to her father abusing her years ago when he had custody of her. The younger one has a deadbeat father who never met her (he was in the navy when i had her and lives on the opposite side of the country now). I have been considering filing for child support from both of their fathers. My question is, would they get visitations or some kind of custody if they do in fact pay child support? My oldest ones father liked to quit his job once the child support money starting coming out his checks. The younger ones dad just got in touch me(stupid facebook privacy changes) and already he has threatened that if i send my daughter to visit him, i wont get her back. So i'm kinda scared to get child support if their dads are gonna have the chance to be in their lives. I've tried to contact my county office but everything is pretty much automated and computerized at this point. I've sent emails but have yet to get a response.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:59 PM on Jan. 19, 2011 in General Parenting
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