so i have lost 2 babies...one at 21 weeks and one at 15 weeks. the one at 21 weeks was a girl and i had to be induce and deliever her! the one at 15 weeks i was scheduled to have a d&c and then ended up passing the baby at home the next day. (day before the d&c) at first it took me a while to grasp the people werent going to stop getting pregnant and having kids..but when my BEST FRIEND got pregnant and then threatened to have an abortion. (she would throw it in her b/f face to get what she wanted) she is now only 14 weeks pregnant. has only had an u/s by her doctor says that is a "girl" and doesnt have to say a WORD...but throws the HA HA HA vibes in my face. is it normal for me to be bothered by the whole pregnancy! she has a 5 year old son who is very intellegaint but when his gma is around she treats him like a 1 year old.
have any of you moms been in a situation similar to this?
i can honestly say im NOT JEALOUS of her! He b/f is an A-hole, and she doesnt work and always says how broke she is and how her b/f wont help pay for anything!
idk i just am super bothered by it!
Babe I think you are infact bothered by it. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel. It's not that you are jealous of HER, it's the baby. It's your loss speaking up while she threatens to abort hers. This might not be the best time to be around her. I'm not saying don't be her friend but you need to heal and her saying that crap is being very insensitive to you.
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