ok! so DH is coming home sooner then we all thought! but here is the WORST part! he wants out of the military but cant since he still on deployment! His best friend since Grade school, the person who talked him into joining the military , and his bunk buddy has died in a horrible car crash due to some stupid task! and his name isn't released or anything! and so DH is one of the people who will be carrying the coffin. so i get him friday! im excited to see him but not to happy to see what its done to him! all he does when he calls is cry.. this young man left behind a wife, and 2 small children behind! and so i don't know what to do! he's the type that will push someone away when they are trying to help! and he saw it happened so i know he will go thru counseling! and from what i hear in emails is that he's drinking a lot! and i don't want him to drink his sorrows away! so i need advice on what to do, how to support him when he's in pain!
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