This is what I asked last Summer: "Is there anything that I can do as a mom for my 33 yr who does not care about anything including himself?" I spent time with him doing things. When it came to Christmas I asked him to put some garland with lights along my railing and he did and asked me how it looked I told him it looked fine and after that he started to do more things around the house. When his wife has asked him to do things he had in the past but everytime he did she would get on his case because it he didn't do it to her satisfaction. But recently she served him divorce papers and wants him to get his stuff out of her place but he won't. So one of the times that she was still seeing him she had to actually bring all of his clothes over because he wouldn't take them he said that he didn't want them. Now I am trying to get him to get the rest of his stuff out but he says he doesn't care about it or want any of it. He hasn't called her lawyer because he says he doesn't know what to say. I told him that someday he is going to need all of it for his place but he says that he doesn't care . He has a tv and an entertainment center that they want out of their but he doesn't want it. When he got them he was very excited about them but his father in-law hated it and wanted it out. But my son seems to be delighted with the idea of leaving it in there because he says it pisses his father in-law off that its there. What are you suggestions?
Answer by twinsplus2more at 1:04 PM on Jan. 20, 2011
Answer by sierramagic at 3:27 AM on Jan. 20, 2011
Answer by sierramagic at 4:09 PM on Jan. 20, 2011