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Is it really....?

Is it abuse if your husband grabs your arms tightly during a heated argument? And it isn't the first time he's done it....


Asked by mamaziller at 10:31 AM on Jan. 20, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (7)
  • If hes hurting you and you make him aware of it and he keeps doing it, then yes it is a form of abuse...and it's only beggining

    Answer by Zakysmommy at 10:33 AM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • I totally agree w/ Zakysmommy & couldnt have said it any better. Be careful & start making an escape plan now.

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 10:36 AM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • Yep. Hurting. Leaving marks. Saying unkind words. Screaming. Controlling. Restraining. All abusive!

    Answer by misses_nick at 10:44 AM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • Yes if it hurts and you have asked him not to do it that sometimes is the begining slowly will get worse and worse so watch out.

    Answer by peace013 at 10:48 AM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • I think its an omen of worse things to come. Be careful!

    Answer by hootie826 at 10:58 AM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • I've thought about leaving, but some people tell me to wait it out n some people tell me to leave in a hurry. I just don't know what to do...

    Comment by mamaziller (original poster) at 10:59 AM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • If he is harming you in any manner it is abuse!

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:30 AM on Jan. 20, 2011