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Do you think cheating is ever excusable?

If you treated your husband bad and he cheated and you knew you were wrong, would you stay?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:05 PM on Jan. 20, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • NONE of you may like this and that is FINE. Some people cheat and some people change and holy shit you can even do both! if someone has cheated and felt that they love you and dont want to lose you but htere are some big holes in your relationship then go to therapy and work on them. Some people cant forgive, it is all about the type of person you are. Mine forgave me but that doesnt mean i have to be the type of person he is maybe i couldnt forgive idk im my own person. If you feel it is worth fighting for than fight! Do what you feel is right and things will work out the way they are meant to.
    simonsmama2022

    Answer by simonsmama2022 at 2:32 PM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • No its never excusable but it is forgivable.
    aheuszel

    Answer by aheuszel at 1:07 PM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • I would never ever cheat or stay with a cheater, regardless of the circumstances. If the marriage is that bad, it should end.
    JulieJacobKyle

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 1:07 PM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • Absolutely not.. Nothing is bad enough to cause cheating.. If you or he aren't happy.. then leave.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:08 PM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • cheating is wrong whether your happy in the marriage or not, get out of the marriage if your not happy.
    mrssundin

    Answer by mrssundin at 1:17 PM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • I don't think it is ever right. If the marriage is bad try to fix it or divorce.  Never a good reason to cheat on your spouse. 

    FricknFrack

    Answer by FricknFrack at 1:20 PM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • Nope. Never ever! If you are unhappy, then you need to find a solution within the marriage or by dissolving the marriage.
    misses_nick

    Answer by misses_nick at 1:23 PM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • Nothing in life is guaranteed julie.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:08 PM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • NO. never excusable.
    boobarandbell

    Answer by boobarandbell at 1:09 PM on Jan. 20, 2011

  • Marriage? No, it's not. But if two people are really that unhappy, then they should not be together. The relationship should be ended before either party pursues someone else.
    JulieJacobKyle

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 1:09 PM on Jan. 20, 2011