Your obsessive thoughts have convinced you that thinking is a way of changing the world... and in a way, it's true, just not at all the way you think.
Your thoughts can change the world for you... bring you peace, happiness, contentment, joy. Not by controlling other people or what they do, but by freeing them to do what they will. Free yourself, too.
Do what you want. Do whatever you do with real love, appreciation, helpfulness, kindness, generosity, curiosity, courage, hope... because what you're 'doing' now is making yourself insane, and quite possibly not only attracting very poor choices in me, but also in pushing them away once you have them.
I recommend www.thework.com ... Byron Katie's method.
at 8:55 PM on Jan. 20, 2011