My husband recently screwed up big time. He was in another state working, we were to move with him next week. Well Sunday when I asked how much money do we have, etc for the move he said $1000. I'm like, what happened to it all? We have bills he says. Not thousands of dollars of bills.....anyways. So I check acct to see he wasted $3000 partying, not first time he has wasted money while we were apart by distance. I said that's it, I'm not coming there, and this marrige right now isn't going to last. Obviously other issues, but.
My question is, he hasn't called or msg since then. Our 2 1/2 yr old son has even called and left vm, to which he never responded. His mother said he doesn't want to talk to anyone, he is contemplating everything. Well, I in the meantime have filed for child support, applied for assitance (because without him, have nothing). I don't understnad how he could blow all that money on strippers, bars and clubs and restaurants knowing we were to move. But how could he not call his own little guy? I see now I am making the right decision, but I don't understand men. They want a child so bad, but then don't man up and care for their emotional well being. Why, why, why?? Especially when he is a child whose dad was in and out of his life too. I just don't get it and am so sad for my children....at least the 15 m old doesn't know what's going on.
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