He is 91 and he is always calling my stepmom names and yelling. He tells her she should move out and he should have never married her. He is mean to me too. lol We think he has dementia but can't get him to go to a doctor. We tried to find a place where others go to deal with it. We haven't found one yet. I am not sure what to do. My stepmom just puts up with it. But she cries a lot. Help please
Answer by tootoobusy at 9:16 PM on Jan. 20, 2011
Answer by Bobbysgurl at 9:26 PM on Jan. 20, 2011
Answer by Bobbysgurl at 9:51 PM on Jan. 20, 2011
Is there a senior club in your area if its a health club they might have a social worker in there or maybe a nurse. Hopefully you can get him to go with you under the pretense he could do some exercises or play cards with a few male friends. You could probably slip away and talk to the" nurse or social worker and maybe they will have some suggestions. Doesn't he have to see a doctor for a check up during the year. That's when I would ask to speak to the doctor privately.
Answer by Linda702 at 12:56 PM on Jan. 22, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 9:20 PM on Jan. 20, 2011