Today started off ok. But by the time the afternoon approached I was feeling grouchy. My husband went hiking with my brother, which left me alone at home with our 8wk old. What's new though? I basically feel like I'm alone or caring for the baby by myself all the time. Plus doing laundry and cleaning the house. Oh and don't let me forget constantly picking up after my husband. Sometimes I wonder what role dads play? Many times I think it would be easier if I was single and forced to do it alone because then at least I'd only have to worry about me and the baby instead of a grown adult.
It's like things will be going fine with me...I won't feel frustrated or tense and then all of a sudden everything annoys me and then I start to get really critical and over analyze everything. I need to just learn to let go... If only it were that easy!!
Things have been really tight financially for the past few months. We moved from CA to MD and I haven't been working. I'm hoping to start work in the next month or so. But it doesn't help the immediate situation. I hope that once I start working and we have a double income that things will be better with our relationship, meaning less tension when it comes to the finances. Who knows though. My husband is a spender and I would rather save or look for bargains. That's once issue I have...I don't necessarily trust him when it comes to money.
Question-Should I just accept that if you want something done you have to ask the husband to do it? Many times I just wait for my husband to notice things that need to be done and I just end up waiting and waiting. It's just so hard for me to constantly ask. I have the hardest time understanding why guys just don't seem to take initiative. HELP!!
All I know is that my precious baby girl is the best thing that ever happened to me.
Thanks for listening/reading my rants!!
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