My man is in jail & has been there since August I have stuck by him every step of the way it is just so hard to deal with mentally,emotionally, & physically has anyone else been in this situation? Please ladies no bashing just looking for advice & support he is not just some guy I randomly met he is my first love I have nown him since he was 14 years old)Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:25 PM on Jan. 20, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:26 PM on Jan. 20, 2011
Answer by kyiahsmommy at 11:46 PM on Jan. 20, 2011
Answer by shellbi19 at 11:54 PM on Jan. 20, 2011
If your relationship is strong and healthy stick by him. My cousin went through the same thing her husband was in jail for a year at that time they were 3 years into the marriage and she stood by his side. However the relationship they had was based on partying and there was an age difference of 6 years he was like 21 and she was 27. Before he went to jail she was always broke. While in jail she was stable financially. When he got out money got tight again. He was unable to find work because of his record. Eventually, he started messing around and eventually left her and their son for another woman. He came back and left again. This is just her experience that I thought I would share. If you are ok with the fact that he will have a hard time finding work and that life gives no guarantees then by all means stay by his side. Consider everything so that you do not regret time wasted later.
Answer by NativeMommy123 at 12:07 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by KamAndKingsMama at 2:22 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by gwen20 at 2:52 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Your must be hurting so bad. I am sorry. Things are going to ruff. It is not going to be easy as you know. The sad part is a lot of people are not going to be as supportive as they could. Usually the people that feel so unsympathetic are the same people who have not been through this. Hang in and hang on. He is going through a lot and so are you. If you are there for him then stay there. keep looking for support because you will need it. I am on your side hun. I am here if you just wanna vent. I do understand. My 33 year old son is also in jail. I have needed and looked for support and I was quite hurt at how many self righteous, better than it could never be my family people I have met. Use this time as hard as it is to be there for each other. I do not want to be judged and neither do you.
Answer by rosetoes at 3:12 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by lovemykids2011 at 4:04 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
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