My 21 year old son recently got married a girl that he also got pregnant....
They have dated on and off for the last year, and I have literally begged him to not stay with this girl... I usually dont interfere with his relationships but I KNEW he was making a mistake with this one .... but it failed and she is now my daughter in law and future grandbabies mother.
Just so I dont get bashed, I will explain why I do not like her.... hse lies about everything and almost makes up stories and EVERYTHING ( when i first met her we talked for like a hour, during that time she told me she can not have kids because she has to have a hysterectomy, that she is almost in kidney failure but that she has not been to the DRs in YEARS because she doesnt have insurance and then preceeded to tell me about how she knows all of these people... even talked about how she has mafia family members, and had family members in gangs -- but that her whole family also live here in town, which we live in a small country town in ohio with about 800 people so i think it would be known if there were mafia or gang members wondering around ....)... She also spends all of my sons money faster than it comes in - he now has 3 jobs, ands till has to come home to cook and clean....so I am not exactly why she says she has " so much to do everyday" and yet everytime I stop in she is asleep on the couch with the tv on.... and then there is the fact that she likes none of my sons friends and so that means he cant have any uless she approves of them ( she chose all of his groomsmen for thier wedding, and she wouldnt let my daughter be in the wedding even though my son begged her to ) ..
So I think you get the gist of why I do not like her...
BUT my husband and I have tried to make the best of it and be happy about the new bundle of joy... we went shopping the other day and bought a couple of cute yellow outfits ( we dont know the gender yet ) and a couple stuffed animals...
So later when i was talking to her on the phone and i told her about the cute things I bought she got mad and litterally yelled " NO ONE IS ALOUD TO BUY STUFF FOR MY BABY, I WILL PICK OUT ALL OF ITS CLOTHES, AND IF ANYONE IS GOING TO BUY ANYTHING I WILL TELL THEM WHAT TO GET"
So, I told her I will keep them at my house for when the baby is here, so not to worry about it... but I am so mad I cant hardly stand it any l0nger !
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