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Who is more irresponsible the children, or the dad?

Most times it's like I'm raising an extra child! lol

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:52 AM on Jan. 21, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • Dads can be very childish sometimes

    Answer by elizabr at 6:13 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I married a responsible adult. I am so sorry that you can't say the same.

    I strongly recommend couples counseling; if he won't go, go yourself.

    Answer by rkoloms at 6:30 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I wouldn't be married to an irresponsible man. My. 25 husband
    of 25 years has been responsible since day 1 and he was 19
    when we got married. My children were raised from an early
    age to be responsible. So my answer is neither is more irresponsible.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:33 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • So can mom...just to be fair here.

    everyone is allowed to be irresponsible at times. Life's too short to be rigid and serious 24/7

    Answer by Zoeyis at 10:16 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • My husband is 23 and I'm 25. He can be irresponsible at time, but he makes up for it 10 fold. I agree with Zoeyis :)

    Answer by amberdawnbarr at 2:55 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I am sorry you married someone like that. I choose to marry someone I knew would be a great husband and great father. He has never once proved me wrong on my decision. Of course this is a man that looks down on uninvolved fathers and husbands. I married a man that has always got up through the night with our son with me, fed him, changed diapers, and he also potty trained our son. I hope you two can work this out.

    Answer by Mom2Just1 at 3:03 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

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