The last couple of times we had sex, my boyfriend (we have been together almost 2 years and have a 10 month old child together) has gone limp midways through. One tim eI was on top and one time he was on top.
The big thing is that I initiated sex both times and I NEVER can bring myself to do so because I am so scared of being turned down or turning him off by asking for sex when I look as fat and funky as I do. (I seriously hate my body. )
He claimed it isn't my fault, but I feel like it is. I know if he masturbates that doesn't happen when he is looking at those beautiful women. :( I almost wonder if he usually has to look at or imagine other women (that he see's in magazines and movies) to finish sex with me and that's when he initiates it yet when I initiate it he doesn't have that stimulation to be able to actually get enough in the mood to finish with me.
When it happened last night I just went into the bathroom and cried for a bit, then went to bed to act like I was going to sleep until I heard him fall to sleep and then I went into the livingroom and cried some more. He told me last night (he came to the bathroom to check on me) that it isn't my fault and that his "junk just isn't working for him lately".
What should I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:17 AM on Jan. 21, 2011 in Relationships
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