My grandad is very sick he is dieing.. well he is in sc with all of my family but me and my kids and husband are in germany in the miliatry.. Well i want to fly home to see my grandad before he dies but my husband doesnt think its a good idea. He says i would have to fly home with all my kids by myself and that it would cost money and its not worth it.. Hes never been close to his family so i think thats why he thinks that way but i want to see my granddad before he dies.. I would only be able to stay for 2 weeks and i would have to take my girls out of school to go which i think my husband is the most upset about.. Am i doing the right thing by going?Answer Question
Answer by knm51504 at 9:26 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by Scuba at 9:27 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by pennycandy at 9:28 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by gooftroop070910 at 9:28 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by 2BlondeBabies at 9:28 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
I would want to go too. He has to understand you need closer. You need to let your grandfather go and let him know how much you love him. I hope all turns out okay for you and your husband understands your feeling towards this issue.
Answer by sheer_heart at 9:28 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by rebeccadac at 9:29 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Family is more important than two weeks in school. Your children will spend quarter of their life in their. but your granddad is dying. If you love him you have to see him one last time. You have to say good bye. Flying with two children who are school aged is not a big deal. Ok, not a teeny dream as well. But I don't think two weeks is a big time to be far from your husband and the children from school. Ask your husband if he would go for a holiday that long. He probably would. So don't be upset and do not worry. If you won't say good bye you will regret it in your whole life. Believe me, I know:(
Answer by adriennfaklya at 9:33 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by Bmat at 9:34 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
I would most definitely do it.. I wouldn't care if it costs a million dollars.. you may never see your grandfather again..
Answer by SuperrMommyy at 9:35 AM on Jan. 21, 2011