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Is is typical for couples to go straight to intercourse with no foreplay?? I've never heard of none at all,but I've read questions and answers on here where they just go at it. I guess now I know why so many women are not reaching orgasm!


Asked by butterflyblue19 at 9:28 AM on Jan. 21, 2011 in Relationships

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  • We all need good foreplay in order to reach a great orgasm.

    Answer by Minerva_07 at 8:01 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • we have a small bit of foreplay

    Answer by laura970 at 9:30 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I guess it depends on how you define foreplay? Talking, kissing, touching?

    Answer by Scuba at 9:30 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Yes very typical! In all my past relationships once we actually made it that far the foreplay stopped! Which was my biggest upset. My husband now has a low sex drive as it is. So I am so excited JUST to be having sex. Even though the foreplay is not present at all!

    Answer by AmyLynn5398 at 9:30 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • depends on your definition of foreplay. if it is oral sex alone, then yes sometimes (usually it is me that goes without foreplay =/) we go at it without doing that first. but we always, always make out and/or feel up on eachother before we have sex. i dont see how it would be possible to get turned on without SOME form of before hand touching/kissing/rubbing/whatever.

    Answer by tnm786 at 9:31 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I've only had sex with four I don't have a lot of experience..

    1st boyfriend--Could either start with foreplay or just go right into it.

    2nd boyfriend--Did foreplay at the weirdest times..but when it actually came down to sex, we did no foreplay

    3rd boyfriend--Did the "Slam Bam, Thank You Mam"

    4th boyfriend(current)--We do foreplay for quite a long time & then have sex.. Its amazing♥


    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 9:33 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Depends on how much time we have, or how tired we are.

    Answer by missanc at 9:33 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • i think foreplay is a must.. atleast for me.. I can not reach orgasm (sorry) if there is nothing at all

    Answer by knm51504 at 9:37 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • well i would love to have foreplay but i havent i just go right into i hopefully it will happen when we start living together

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 9:45 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I consider anything that does not include penis in vagina as foreplay. Fingering,oral,kissing,sucking

    Comment by butterflyblue19 (original poster) at 9:31 AM on Jan. 21, 2011