I'm talking about the one's who are proud of their body, don't need a man to make them happy, know they look cute no matter what they're wearing or doing, etc.
The one's who tell you to get confidence in yourself.
Also.... do they realize that some of us (at least me) literally DO NOT KNOW HOW to gain confidence in ourselves?
I've tried telling myself positive things, being positive, etc.... I've tried working out and eating better, etc.
But I suffer from depression so that makes it wwwaaaayyyy harder to do things like "feel better" (oh how easy that advice sounds when you say it).
So, HOW do women gain this mysterious confidence? What's the secret?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:15 AM on Jan. 21, 2011 in Beauty & Style
Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 10:27 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
They fake it like an orgasm. lol
Answer by sheer_heart at 10:19 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Confidence means you focus on things you are good at and what are good in your life. And you kind of realize what is your bad side and use it as your good side. IF you know what are you not as good at than you know you won't choose that to do. If you are good at talking, being as friend than you won't go out and sell yourself as a karaoke star, you will find a nice place to talk. So instead of telling yourself: ugh I can't sing, you can just find out what are you good at and be happy for it. You have to learn how to walk before you could fly. So if you want to have a castle, first you have to be thankful for your house, home. You have to build yourself of brick by brick. And when it comes your not so good part you have to learn to say for people who criticise you: well, ok, tell me some new. I knew this for 100 years:P Mahw:) The first and worse thing to be enough good for yourself:) And after nothing matters:P
Answer by adriennfaklya at 10:26 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by Zakysmommy at 10:26 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by knm51504 at 10:16 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
I kind of have confidence.. just not when Im naked! lol
Answer by SuperrMommyy at 10:17 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by voni681 at 10:24 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by Scuba at 10:24 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by samurai_chica at 10:29 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
The best thing you can do to find out what you don't like in yourself and try to accept it or try to start to work on it. IF you are down you can just tell yourself: ok, it is poo now but I am working on it. Every day I make myself a little better. And focus on the way. IF you have depression than doing exercises is a really good thing against it. Other good thing: find a hobby, change your work, work with children:) Or cooking:P
Answer by adriennfaklya at 10:31 AM on Jan. 21, 2011