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Should I not go just because he's going?

So my ex & I used to go 2 this club/bar every friday, and we stopped talking and we're now fighting....mainly because he chooses his new ''gf'' over his kids. So my question is, he's going there WITH HER...should I not go just because of that? The friends that go there, are his friends that he introduced me to, so we're now friends also. I think if I go, it will bring back those feelings that I worked so hard to keep away, but I dont want to put my life on hold just because of him.

I'm confused & I need advice....

 
knicole0708

Asked by knicole0708 at 10:57 AM on Jan. 21, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (14)
  • why not stay home and spend that time with your babies? :)
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 11:00 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Why subject yourself to that crap! I have an idea, go find a new fun bar and invite your friends to go with you. Fresh start!
    beyondhopes

    Answer by beyondhopes at 11:01 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • i say go!!! have a good time and enjoy yourself!!!!
    jlap

    Answer by jlap at 11:00 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • i personally wouldnt go, but i hate awkward situations
    pookipoo

    Answer by pookipoo at 10:59 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I wouldn't go. I just don't see the night turning out good. Find a new hang out.
    Christine0813

    Answer by Christine0813 at 11:02 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Just remember, if you go, it's not the gf fault HE is neglecting his kids. And if you go, keep your cool for your own reputation. And see if you can make plans with some friends to start going other places.
    2BlondeBabies

    Answer by 2BlondeBabies at 11:07 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I have my kids 24-7, I looooove my kids to DEATH! But sometimes mommy needs a break!
    knicole0708

    Comment by knicole0708 (original poster) at 11:02 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I agree with Beyondhopes............go find your own play pen and leave the past behind you.
    zbee

    Answer by zbee at 11:04 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • If you're worried about any potential confrontation, I would go somewhere else.
    Scuba

    Answer by Scuba at 11:04 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • i understand, i need a break too lol just not at a bar, not my kind of place but i wouldn't go anywhere my ex was if i knew i'd get upset and have a bad night
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 11:04 AM on Jan. 21, 2011

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