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Should I not go just because he's going?

So my ex & I used to go 2 this club/bar every friday, and we stopped talking and we're now fighting....mainly because he chooses his new ''gf'' over his kids. So my question is, he's going there WITH HER...should I not go just because of that? The friends that go there, are his friends that he introduced me to, so we're now friends also. I think if I go, it will bring back those feelings that I worked so hard to keep away, but I dont want to put my life on hold just because of him.

I'm confused & I need advice....

Asked by knicole0708 at 10:57 AM on Jan. 21, 2011 in Relationships

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why not stay home and spend that time with your babies? :)

Answer by josiesmommy00 at 11:00 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Why subject yourself to that crap! I have an idea, go find a new fun bar and invite your friends to go with you. Fresh start!

Answer by beyondhopes at 11:01 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
i say go!!! have a good time and enjoy yourself!!!!

Answer by jlap at 11:00 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
i personally wouldnt go, but i hate awkward situations

Answer by pookipoo at 10:59 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
I wouldn't go. I just don't see the night turning out good. Find a new hang out.

Answer by Christine0813 at 11:02 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
Just remember, if you go, it's not the gf fault HE is neglecting his kids. And if you go, keep your cool for your own reputation. And see if you can make plans with some friends to start going other places.

Answer by 2BlondeBabies at 11:07 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
I have my kids 24-7, I looooove my kids to DEATH! But sometimes mommy needs a break!

Comment by knicole0708 (original poster) at 11:02 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
I agree with Beyondhopes............go find your own play pen and leave the past behind you.

Answer by zbee at 11:04 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
If you're worried about any potential confrontation, I would go somewhere else.

Answer by Scuba at 11:04 AM on Jan. 21, 2011
i understand, i need a break too lol just not at a bar, not my kind of place but i wouldn't go anywhere my ex was if i knew i'd get upset and have a bad night

Answer by josiesmommy00 at 11:04 AM on Jan. 21, 2011