1st, he should only get the fruits, veggies and cereal AFTER he takes the formula/breastmilk. Since his digestive system is still immature, he is not absorbing much nutrition from the solids.
2nd, if he doesn't take the bottle, don't give him anything else. He will not starve. He will eat when he is ready. Also, he shouldn't be sleeping when drinking. It can lead to mouth/teeth issues even before the teeth have come in and it can also cause him to aspirate.
at 11:49 AM on Jan. 21, 2011